We Work with Two Kinds of Couples
Struggling couples: heading towards breakup or divorce
- If you still love each other but you're stuck in a destructive disconnecting dynamic, and you're at your wits end and don't know what to do.
- If your level of pain and conflict has gotten so high that you're on the brink of divorce or breaking up because you can't go on living like this. You've tried to fix this, but you haven't had success in traditional therapy or other methods.
- If you feel so alone and heartbroken, watching your relationship fall apart and you don't know how to move beyond the conflicts and disagreements to understand and work through the real issues that are causing your disconnection. Instead, the more difficult and important topics "get shoved under the rug" because otherwise it always seems to end in argument or shut-down.
- If you feel disconnected, lonely, frustrated, resentful, even pissed off because your partner is sitting in the same room and sharing a meal with you, but you are both hurting and you can only manage talking about the surface-level stuff.
Stable couples who have a good foundation -- and want it to be great
- If you want to feel closer to your partner, more intimately connected and to rekindle passion and attraction, and re-engage sexually but don't know how to get there.
- If you trigger each other often and/or you've fallen into harmful avoiding or confrontational patterns that are holding you back.
- If you'd like to improve communication, reduce friction, resolve resentments, and increase satisfaction.
- If everything is great in your life ... except for your romantic relationship.
There is hope and we can help you
We save marriages/relationships. We are "relationship surgeons" and unlike traditional talk therapy, we find and fix the root causes of your struggles. We help you put the pieces back together to rekindle the passion and romance. We'll build a roadmap for you so you can build your dream relationship.
We love doing this work; it's our life's calling and legacy! You have nothing to lose and everything to gain by requesting a FREE Consultation with us.
Note: We only work with couples where both parties are willing to do what it takes to make the relationship work. If one of you has already checked out of the relationship, our coaching is not the right fit for you.
We're a Unique Coaching Team Because...
- When your marriage/relationship is on life support, you need deep work, fast. We are able to stabilize couples and save their marriages because our typical couples coaching sessions are 2-3 hours; yes, 2 to 3 hours! We don't say "time's up" and leave you hanging, but instead work with you both to make real progress.
- We take as much time as we need to get to the root causes of your challenges and guide you to do the deep inner work so you can transform your relationship, faster than the traditional 50-minute therapy model.
- The foundation of our Dream Relationship Mastery Model is the Internal Family Systems (IFS) Self-leadership model, developed by Richard Schwartz, Ph.D., LMFT.
- We give you both the masculine and feminine perspectives on relationships. (For couples coaching, the men love this because they don't feel "ganged up" on by two women.)
- We "walk the walk" of the deeply intimate and vulnerable connection you're seeking. We share our personal experiences of how we've navigated difficult moments. We teach you how to do the same with Self-led courageous communication.
- Not only do we guide you to do the deep healing work, but we also teach you how to keep passion and attraction alive through understanding masculine-feminine polarity.
